BIG IS BEAUTIFUL………………

BIG IS BEAUTIFUL………………

So today am stealing office time to kiss my blog, I missed you baby.

This kinda makes me feel a little lesbian. (this blog is female) but huh It’s not the first time am doubting my own sexuality. It has happened to me severally. #that awkward moment when u r a lil gay#

That is totally a story for no day, I won’t discuss such not now and maybe never, no guilt though, just a little discretion.

Today I really want to pour out my heart and appreciate a breed of persons many people wish not to appreciate. People look at these very lovely breed in a harsh way. I don’t know, but that discrimination against plus sized girls are what I want to shed light on. I do not want to fight for their rights, no. That is not it, they have them, and no one denies them that. But rather I want to bring them to the position they deserve in the society. I want to put them on top, because I have taken very much time to look into the society and now I know, better than before.

The other day I went to a church service that was rather unique. It was a talent show kind of thing. Most of the presentations were actually voice presentations in form of songs. To my surprise, all and I make all the songs that were sung were totally mind blowing. It was the kind of voice you cannot ignore, the kind that is ooh so smooth.  

What totally caught my attention was that all these beautiful voices belonged to plus sized girls. All of them!!

 The slim ones had voices but just that, voices. The plus sized ones had a touch of connection in their voices. They would connect directly with ones’ heart and melt it right away.

That whole week, I decided to look at the inner person in big girl, and the people I found in them, are the most beautiful. Do you ever realize how cute faced plus sized girls are? They all have these lovely pretty faces that show care and love even when they don’t intend to? Yea you cannot deny that.

Plus sized girls stick to one relationship longer than their slim counter parts. That is true, argue all you want, but these girl are keepers.

I have also realized that plus sized girls have very genuinely unique personalities. They give a touch of self and passion in all they do. If she is saying hi she does it with a smile. Thin girls like to wave and sneer at the same time, what a contrast, who told you to say hi in the first place. Nkt!!

Plus sized girls have hearty laughs, they have a laugh that means happiness, they enjoy the moment. Thin girls, struggle to get noticed so much that they would rather giggle than let go and let laugh. They think it will taint their image. If you are so cute being slim, why do you struggle to get noticed?

On struggling to get noticed, every heard thin girls engaging each other in a conversation about a big girl and they go like;  ”who will even notice her?” Pause for a moment and think. Ever realized how a cute plus sized girl attracts attention just by being themselves with nothing much added? Especially on the dance floor, these girls do not even have to shake it. Thin ones almost break their bones. So, “who will even notice her?”

I don’t know why our men here keep saying they are looking for a laptop girl while in the first place they stare at every big behind that goes past them and even make it a topic of discussion for the rest of the time till another one passes by. Do not try to be westernized in your talk while your actions are still deeply rooted in Africa, if you can match it up, well and good but we all know you love big, big is good. That is what most of the men whom I engaged in this discussion told me unknowingly I would blog about. They even said when you go big, you will never go small. So why the denial? Please love them and show it, it is no offence to. If you loved skinny girls so much, I wonder why we have more skinny women being single than plus sized girls.

Skinny bitches on the other hand, are just that, Skinny bitches!!

I thought about the phrase “You skinny bitch!!” Well it must have had an origin.