Ohh boy, its been a while since i blogged been fixing a few things here and there and in the course of my fixing I noticed several things in the society where i hail from and they needed immediate attention. The sad part is, its not my duty to fix that, but somebody has to tell ladies that getting a guy to settle for u or down with you is not the end of 'looking good era'!
If you cannot maintain your own swag, please, please keep up with your man's.
It totally pissed me off when i met this dude i used to know back in campus days, he was ahead of me so u can be sure he's now glowing as his wallet width thickens by the month.
He pursed Medicine. Doctor it is.Forget about the strike, these guys got cash, at least to maintain a girl's hair, nails, looks and what have you.
We go about our usual"hi how have u been? Whats new, blah blah and walaah! dude shows me a ring" Alright you are married, 'congratulations when do i get to meet the lucky gal?' , And the bombshell is dropped, she is right there with him.
Braids that looked like they were made in May and we were in the Christmas period, an alice band that was not helping hide the dirty, unkempt rope looking stands was all she had as an accessory.Yea lets add the wedding ring! A long black skirt whose length unless for religious reasons was a total waste of material.(I could have made a dress, a skirt and two alice band out of that skirt!!).
The hot weather not withholding, the doctor's wife had a long beige sweater.Long enough for one to wear with leggings during a cold night in some up country ceremony like 'maombolezi'.Yes it was that bad. I do not wish to talk about the obvious flat plastic shoes. WTF!! Your man has a car, girl rock em 6inch and above.......leave the freaky flats to people who have to walk all over town trying to get a matatu, line up for hours on end, and eventually maybe run after it!!
I wanted to slap the girl. Not for anything but because she was forcing this guy to cheat on her.
Men are visual beings, they are attracted to hot, sexy, shiny, attractive beautiful things. It is your duty as a doctor's wife to make sure that you are the most attractive thing around him. How many hot patients do you think this guy attends to?
It will not be his fault at all, it will never be if this guy is attracted to what he deserves.
With all due respect, this is a doctor i am talking about, his looks do not matter the guy is a well earning average Kenyan whose got swag just by profession.The society expects you as a doctor's wife of girlfriend to at least look the part.
If you cannot look good for you, look good for him.
There is no point looking like a house girl in his mothers house and calling Maina every morning to say how your man does not come home. OOh by the way all Maina will say is, 'I cant believe what am hearing, call me, my number is............, Jesus!!' Yea that's the furthest it can go woman!!So get your act right!!
Great week ahead!!
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